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Getting Involved and Moving On

I am sitting in a room at the gym my girls are coming to for gymnastics and tumbling and thinking about how far I have come over the last couple of years. While with my narcissist I was unable to afford to put my kids in any sports because the money was never...

Searching for a home, taking classes, and moving from surviving to thriving.

In the last couple of months, I have been getting my ducks in a row to have a more stable environment for my children where they each have their own space and feel safe. I started by signing up for a class in my community where I have learned about programs to assist...

How do you respond to legal threats?

I tell my clients when they worry about their toxic partners filing some kind of legal action, not to worry until they are served papers. Narcissists like to give empty threats about something you fear the most in order to gain more control over you. If yours was the...

Some Things Never Change.

After divorcing your narcissist and you learn as much as you can about Narcissistic Personality Disorder you begin to see that some things never change. My ex is up to the same games as when we were together. The Narcissist Prayer loud and clear. That didn't happen....

How to Determine Child Support.

Most states provide a child support worksheet with your divorce packet. This will help in determining how much if any that the co-parent will have to provide. The parent who has more parenting time, if they make less than the other parent, will usually be awarded...

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Credit and Divorce: What You Need to Know

How does getting divorced affect your credit? Who is responsible for the credit card bills? Mary and Bill recently divorced. Their divorce decree stated that Bill would pay the balances on their three joint credit card accounts. Months later, after Bill neglected to...

Coping With A Divorce: A Simple Strategy

Sue married her childhood sweetheart, John, when she was only twenty-two. At the time, she could not have been happier and was very much in love. She imagined that they would spend the rest of their lives together. Sue met John when she was at school and they had been...

Child Custody and Seeing Your Kids – Visitation

Child custody has several forms, sole custody, and joint custody. Sole custody means one parent gets physical as well as legal custody, though the definition can vary slightly from state to state. Joint custody is another type of child custody, where both parents get...

Cheap Divorce: Yes, It’s Possible. Here’s How.

Cheap divorce is possible if you are fully aware of all the possible expenses involved and willing to make compromises. Try to put your focus on the variables like certain legal representation or the cost of different divorce kits or divorce form packages. Cutting...

Are You Prepared For Your Child Custody Hearing?

The court plays a significant role in determining what is in the ‘best interests’ of your child. The court considers all aspects including physical, educational, spiritual, emotional as well as preferential requirements of a child, so it makes a study of homes of both...

Divorce Filing Fee Waiver: State-by-State Guide

How to File for Divorce for Free in Every US State – Did you know that in every state there is a way to file at no cost to you? There are fee waivers in every state and if you meet the criteria set by your state getting a divorce could be done for free. Here’s how to get divorced for free in your state.

5 Ways To Numb The Financial Pain Of Divorce

Whether it comes before or after the papers are signed, economic hardship is all too familiar to many couples who divorce. Following a few financial guidelines can ease the burden during this difficult time. Each year, 1 million Americans divorce. More than 80 percent...

5 Keys to Creating a Life You Love After Divorce

If you're going through divorce, you're probably wondering what life after divorce will look like. Fear sometimes gets the best of us - and who could blame us? Especially when your ex (or soon-to-be ex) is a narcissist. Thinking about life after divorce (while getting...

The Narcissistic Rage Continues

After the emails about contacting my children, I thought it was time to take care of the legal stuff that he should be doing. In the divorce, I have asked for copies of his tax information every year in the divorce and was awarded it in the end. The first tax season...

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