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Sole Custody, what it means by state

Because every state makes up their own rules and definitions for legal terms I thought I would give you what sole custody means by state. Most states would rather parents to have joint custody there are a few that still go by the rules of the primary parent has sole...

One Size Doesn’t Fit All.

Even though most narcissists have a lot of similarities such as their way of communicating with us and the things they say; when you are divorcing things can be different between each one. Listening to the stories of others and the fight that they have had to go...

Narcissists always find enablers.

The dictionary result for an enabler is a person or thing that makes something possible. "the people who run these workshops are crime enablers" a person who encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behavior in another. "being an enabler to an addict does...

How to keep Flying Monkeys Chasing Wild Geese

  Do you have flying monkeys in your life? I have them in several forms. They come in the guise of a daughter and sibling to my children that claims to want to have a relationship with my children with no follow through, an ex of my ex that I have to continue to block...

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One Holiday Down One to Go.

I survived one of the hardest holidays I have had in a while. The energy of the house full of people with different issues of their own and me living very much in my head knowing that I have family members talking shit about me behind my back, set the day off right....

Wow, she went there?

Today my mom, who has Alzheimer's, fell and hit her head. My dad is her sole caregiver and also takes care of his mother who just happened to be out of town for the holidays. When I found out it was through a message on FB that informed me he was on his way to the ER...

Where it all started. Welcome to Divorce Your Narcissist.

When I went to court for my Domestic Violence Injunction I did so with a statement that I had planned to read in the courtroom. When I was waiting in the hallway outside the original room that it was supposed to be in my ex's attorney informed me that the hearing was...

My life, My future

Mr. XXXX went into detox on November 21, 2017, at a facility in St. Pete or Clearwater, I was not allowed to know where and his daughter did not respond when I asked her where he was. He called me the first day and said that if I did not have a relationship with his...

When to fire your attorney?

I have read a lot of posts on DYN on FB and also SPAN where survivors are talking about how their attorney is not representing them to the best of their ability. Maybe your attorney is trying to rush through and not taking everything into account and representing you...

My Story, My life

As easy as it would have been to turn away early in the relationship, I had this teenage girl living in my house who had been bounced around her whole life since her mother’s death at 11 months old and I felt that all she needed was a little stability. She was already...

My Statement, My Story

The following is the statement I wrote and intended on reading during my Domestic Violence Injunction hearing. It is almost 2019 and women should be able to talk about the abuse they have been through in their life. I was raped, I was choked, I was threatened, but...

Getting organized and comfortable in my new life.

For three days the sun came out, I miss seeing the sunshine every day. I spent a lot of time outside soaking it up and getting my new environment organized.  My kids' education is set and they are happy and thriving. I went to the school board yesterday and the person...

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