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Just when you think you’re all done…

I initially filed for divorce on January 10, 2018. After a couple of hearings to make sure I had all I needed to have for the divorce the Final Hearing for the divorce was on October 8, 2018, with the General Magistrate. the Judge, who was also the judge for the DVI...

One Holiday Down One to Go.

I survived one of the hardest holidays I have had in a while. The energy of the house full of people with different issues of their own and me living very much in my head knowing that I have family members talking shit about me behind my back, set the day off right....

Wow, she went there?

Today my mom, who has Alzheimer's, fell and hit her head. My dad is her sole caregiver and also takes care of his mother who just happened to be out of town for the holidays. When I found out it was through a message on FB that informed me he was on his way to the ER...

My life, My future

Mr. XXXX went into detox on November 21, 2017, at a facility in St. Pete or Clearwater, I was not allowed to know where and his daughter did not respond when I asked her where he was. He called me the first day and said that if I did not have a relationship with his...

When to fire your attorney?

I have read a lot of posts on DYN on FB and also SPAN where survivors are talking about how their attorney is not representing them to the best of their ability. Maybe your attorney is trying to rush through and not taking everything into account and representing you...

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My Statement, My Story

The following is the statement I wrote and intended on reading during my Domestic Violence Injunction hearing. It is almost 2019 and women should be able to talk about the abuse they have been through in their life. I was raped, I was choked, I was threatened, but...

Getting organized and comfortable in my new life.

For three days the sun came out, I miss seeing the sunshine every day. I spent a lot of time outside soaking it up and getting my new environment organized.  My kids' education is set and they are happy and thriving. I went to the school board yesterday and the person...

Where did I go wrong?

After the final discard, it was 3 of my daughters and I left to pick up the pieces. One of my daughters was an adult. She was not planning on moving at the time nor had she even talked about it that I recall. I asked her to stick around until child support started...

The Final Discard.

The final discard was November 19, 2017. At this time I was broken, I was shocked, I was broke. My husband was in detox and I had just learned that there was not a moment he was clean in our marriage. Every time he was sick in bed with the "man flu" he was actually...

When hell freezes over…

There was a time 17 years ago, after two divorces in 9 years, that I decided it was time for a change. I planned for months and it went off without a problem.  I was making the leap to my next destination, from the place I considered home, to sunny Florida to start a...

To the new supply of my narcissistic nightmare!

There isn’t a moment of the day that I would put myself through the type of abuse he dishes out ever again so no fear I am not trying to take your man. I thank you for taking his attention from bullying and harassing me while he lies about loving his children and...

Preparing for a hearing.

This door will be my view on Monday morning because I have my divorce final hearing Part 2. I know I need to go through my pictures and paperwork and get it together. Instead, I am reading posts on Facebook and researching laws in another state to get my mind off of...

What happens when a judge orders a custody evaluation?

Custody Evaluation is a court-appointed evaluation with a mental health expert who evaluates a family and makes a recommendation to the courts for custody matters, usually including residential custody, visitation, and the parenting plan. Most co-parents don’t fully...

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