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Some Things Never Change.

After divorcing your narcissist and you learn as much as you can about Narcissistic Personality Disorder you begin to see that some things never change. My ex is up to the same games as when we were together. The Narcissist Prayer loud and clear. That didn't happen....

How to Determine Child Support.

Most states provide a child support worksheet with your divorce packet. This will help in determining how much if any that the co-parent will have to provide. The parent who has more parenting time, if they make less than the other parent, will usually be awarded...

How to Write a Parenting Plan

The divorce process comes with many steps and sometimes obstacles. When divorcing a narcissist the best thing is No Contact but when children are involved Low Contact is the only option. If your spouse and you are somewhat communicating throughout the divorce process...

If You Were My Attorney?

Let's say I am driving home from work and I was lost in my thoughts as I was driving the same roads I drive every day but today I'm pushing the gas a little more than I thought and I get pulled over for speeding. If you were my attorney, what would you charge me? What...

Does the Narcissist always win? When Karma pays a Visit.

It may seem like the narcissist always wins but what happens when Karma pays a visit? When my ex left, after me finding pills in his possession and kicking him out, he did so by leaving me broke with rent, electric, and phone bills due. When my adult daughter called...

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Why do Narcissists think they are above the law?

This is a reminder that Narcissists think they are above the law. They don't believe they have to follow court orders on support or anything for that matter. It is currently tax day in America and my ex narc thinks I am just playing games. Not filing a yearly tax...

Understanding Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation has become a more affordable and ‘harmonious’ way to deal with one’s divorce. But not all divorce cases are meant for divorce mediation. In cases where you have an abusive spouse, the safety that the Court may provide would be recommended. When you...

Preparation for Child Custody Court Ordered Mediation

In child custody disputes, mediators can help collect information about each parent and organize this information in a useful way. During mediation, all aspects of both parents can be taken into consideration, including childhood, past divorces, past history, parent’s...

Enforcing Orders: Can it be done?

When divorcing your narcissist something I hear a lot about from clients is, "How do you get the court to enforce an order?" Something to remember is that the order is just a piece of paper and if you want to try to enforce it you would have to revisit the case in...

Divorce and Hidden Assets

Hiding Assets is not the norm in divorce proceedings, but it does happen - and narcissists are often guilty of such manipulation. In this article, we'll teach you how to find out if your spouse has hidden assets in preparation for a divorce. There is no way to know in...

Divorce and Alimony Formula

How do you determine what amount of alimony is paid in divorce? People are always asking, "what is the alimony formula?" Well, there really is no set alimony formula for divorce. This is in complete contrast to child support, which is decided based upon a specific...

Divorce: Tips to Get Through and Beat the Stress

Going through a divorce can leave you angry, in grief and filled with mixed emotions. In other words, it can be a time of intense stress. During this period you may feel like your life is falling apart. However, the end of a marriage can be the beginning of personal...

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