Sole Custody, what it means by state

Sole Custody, what it means by state

Because every state makes up their own rules and definitions for legal terms I thought I would give you what sole custody means by state. Most states would rather parents to have joint custody there are a few that still go by the rules of the primary parent has sole...
One Size Doesn’t Fit All.

One Size Doesn’t Fit All.

Even though most narcissists have a lot of similarities such as their way of communicating with us and the things they say; when you are divorcing things can be different between each one. Listening to the stories of others and the fight that they have had to go...
Narcissists always find enablers.

Narcissists always find enablers.

The dictionary result for an enabler is a person or thing that makes something possible. “the people who run these workshops are crime enablers” a person who encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behavior in another. “being an enabler to...
How to decide when to remove parental rights.

How to decide when to remove parental rights.

To remove rights or not? I currently have sole custody of my children but over the last several days I have thought a lot about removing the parental rights of my ex. Being an older mother to my two girls I know that if anything were to happen to me they would...
Moving On (another open letter)

Moving On (another open letter)

Today is my daughter’s 12th birthday so it is only natural that family members would pass along the wishes for a happy birthday. When it is coming from someone who is toxic, disrespectful, and takes no blame for their actions it can take away from your mojo....
“I believe you”

“I believe you”

I believe you! I am not concerned about whether or not anyone believes me, least of all someone on the “other side”. Someone, who very well could have gone through a very similar experience as mine but can I trust what is said? I am glad you believe me but...
How to keep Flying Monkeys Chasing Wild Geese

How to keep Flying Monkeys Chasing Wild Geese

  Do you have flying monkeys in your life? I have them in several forms. They come in the guise of a daughter and sibling to my children that claims to want to have a relationship with my children with no follow through, an ex of my ex that I have to continue to block...
Survival Mode after Abuse

Survival Mode after Abuse

Here I sit today and I find myself in survival mode again. I am no longer a victim, I am a survivor, but today I am not feeling like a thriver. I took my girls to school this morning but if I am being honest, I haven’t done anything else except watch some TV and...
Flying Monkeys that won’t go away.

Flying Monkeys that won’t go away.

My ex has one main Flying Monkey. This one is the fakest of the fake. She called me about a month after I left the state to talk to my girls. The phone was answered by accident. I was in the grocery store. When I answered and realized the mistake I froze. She asked me...

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