Survival Mode after Abuse

Survival Mode after Abuse

Here I sit today and I find myself in survival mode again. I am no longer a victim, I am a survivor, but today I am not feeling like a thriver. I took my girls to school this morning but if I am being honest, I haven’t done anything else except watch some TV and...
Flying Monkeys that won’t go away.

Flying Monkeys that won’t go away.

My ex has one main Flying Monkey. This one is the fakest of the fake. She called me about a month after I left the state to talk to my girls. The phone was answered by accident. I was in the grocery store. When I answered and realized the mistake I froze. She asked me...
Divorcing My Narcissist

Divorcing My Narcissist

I wrote a series for Queenbeeing about my journey and the steps to divorcing a narcissist. I will link them throughout this blog. I walked through the steps of my divorce to give others insight on the procedure. Today is one year since the day I walked into the...
DIY Divorce: Lessons I Have Learned

DIY Divorce: Lessons I Have Learned

When filing for a high conflict divorce you are going to fight tooth and nail for what you want and need. When I filed in January I waited for him to answer the petition for Dissolution of Marriage. He promised he would give me an answer and time passed by. I thought...
Cash Jobs, the Ultimate Manipulation Tool.

Cash Jobs, the Ultimate Manipulation Tool.

When I met my ex he was a restaurant manager for iHop, his child support was automatically taken from his check. I was unaware of any issue there and then things changed. In the first couple of months, he would come home talking about this opportunity to open a pizza...

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